Thanks For Asking From The Archives: October 8, 1988
Oct 8, 2025
In a poignant exploration of grief, the stories of two young girls intertwine after a tragic accident in 1988. Malie and Missy share their childhood struggles with family turmoil and the lasting effects of loss. As they navigate years of separate grief, their fates collide in unexpected ways. Discovering a message on Facebook years later, they embark on a journey of connection and understanding, confronting the complexities of forgiveness and the impact of choices made long ago. Their stories highlight the shared human experience of suffering and resilience.
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From Chicago To Small-Town Escape
- Malie describes a childhood of anger, responsibility, and moving from Chicago to small-town Kansas at 12.
- She preferred her grandparents and felt resentful and burdened by caring for her younger brothers.
Growing Up With An Alcoholic Father
- Missy recounts living with an alcoholic father who alternated between loving and violent behavior.
- The family endured fights, hiding phone lines, and episodes where Missy had to call the police or flee for safety.
The Night Everything Changed
- After a hopeful birthday dinner with her family, Malie rode home and fell asleep in the car on foggy October 8, 1988.
- She woke up on the highway, learned she was in a wreck, and was told her family were gone.