Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel Esther Calling - Am I Being Gaslit?
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Jul 17, 2023 A woman grapples with feeling gaslit by her partner, questioning her sensitivity and past experiences with boundaries. The conversation dives deep into emotional manipulation and the struggles of establishing healthy boundaries. It also highlights the role of intimacy coordinators in fostering respect in the film industry and the importance of self-awareness in breaking cycles of emotional turmoil. The discussion emphasizes the need for accountability to redefine and improve relationship dynamics.
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New Year's Incident
- The caller recounts a New Year's incident where her boyfriend repeatedly shouted at her in the car.
- Despite her explaining her premenstrual state, he continued, leaving her feeling dismissed and upset.
Past Job and Boundaries
- The caller details her struggles with setting boundaries, referencing a previous job.
- Constant demands and an inability to say no led to burnout and poor health, mirroring her current relationship dynamic.
Gaslighting Signs
- Esther Perel suggests the caller's question, "Am I being gaslit or overly sensitive?", reveals a core issue of gaslighting.
- The caller exhibits common signs: self-doubt, confusion, blame-shifting, and questioning her sanity.