The Kyle Thiermann Show #389 Scripts to Ask for What You Want in the Bedroom - Kiana Reeves
Jun 27, 2025
Kiana Reeves, a Certified Somatic Sex Educator and Full Spectrum Doula, dives into the realms of love, sex, and spirituality. She candidly discusses the journey of sexual awakening, emphasizing the importance of self-acceptance and authentic connections. Kiana also explores navigating intimacy, the significance of open communication, and the complexities surrounding female pleasure, especially post-childbirth. With a humorous touch, she addresses societal pressures and insecurities, promoting emotional resilience and healthy relationships.
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Lesbian Exploration Awakens Sexuality
- Kiana fell in love with a woman in college and explored lesbian relationships, which awakened her sexuality deeply.
- She shaved her head as a symbolic expression of embracing her lesbian identity and shedding previous norms.
Non-Goal Oriented Sexuality
- Lesbian sex is less goal-oriented and more exploratory compared to typical hetero sex focused on penetration.
- Removing goal orientation allows organic sexual experiences with varied pleasure, enhancing connection and satisfaction.
Scripts For Sexual Feedback
- Have sexual desire conversations outside the moment using invitations like “Here's what I love and want more of”.
- Avoid blaming; frame feedback positively to invite connection and curiosity with your partner.