Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel Esther Calling - What If I Break Up With My Dad?
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Jun 3, 2024 A young woman grapples with her father's infidelity and its impact on their relationship. Emotional neglect and familial expectations stir feelings of anger and betrayal, challenging her desire for connection. The discussion reveals the intricate dynamics of father-child bonds, identity, and forgiveness. Themes of empathy surface as they explore the difficulty of breaking free from harmful patterns while striving for personal autonomy. The conversation highlights the complexity of love amidst the quest for healthier boundaries.
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Caller's Strained Relationship with Father
- The caller's father provided material needs but lacked emotional support, often erupting over minor issues.
- This caused lasting anxiety and required therapy and medication.
Father's Affair and Dismissal
- The caller's father's recent affair and divorce added to the existing trauma.
- He dismissed his children's concerns about the situation, causing further distress.
Exploring Expectations and Feelings
- Esther Perel suggests exploring the caller's feelings towards her father and what she can expect from him.
- Perel also points out that the caller may have internalized her mother's feelings.