Becoming Something with Jonathan Pokluda Episode 313: I Want their Approval!
Apr 7, 2025
Exploring the exhausting quest for approval, this discussion tackles the pitfalls of people-pleasing. With humor, they delve into the complexities of dating dynamics and the lure of playing hard to get. The conversation shifts to the balance between genuine service and the pressure to meet expectations, emphasizing the importance of meaningful relationships. Highlighting the contrast between divine and human approval, listeners are encouraged to prioritize faithfulness and embrace their inherent worth over societal validation.
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Playing Hard to Get
- Playing hard to get can work, but it leads to superficial relationships.
- Focus on sincerity and finding someone you can face life's challenges with, not just initial excitement.
Importance of Shared Struggles
- Many young adults desire a relationship based on intense feelings and excitement.
- These feelings are unsustainable; seek a partner you can endure challenges with, not someone who sweeps you off your feet.
Serving for God's Approval
- A listener asks how to serve God without seeking human approval.
- This is a common struggle, especially for those with a serving heart.