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Modern Wisdom
#838 - Dr Paul Eastwick - What Do People Really Want In A Partner?
Sep 14, 2024
01:09:25
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Dr. Paul Eastwick is a psychologist and researcher known for his groundbreaking studies on partner preferences. He reveals that what people say they want in a partner often diverges from reality, highlighting emotional stability as the top trait sought. The discussion covers gender differences in attraction, the impact of biases on mate evaluation, and how big data can enhance dating app matchmaking. Eastwick also delves into the complexities of romantic desires and the evolving nature of relationships in modern society.
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- Individuals often struggle to accurately identify personal partner preferences despite general agreement on desirable traits like attractiveness and honesty.
- The gap between stated and revealed preferences highlights the importance of actual behaviors influencing romantic attraction rather than mere declarations of desire.
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Understanding True Preferences in Partners
Many people possess a general understanding of desirable attributes in a romantic partner, agreeing that traits like attractiveness, intelligence, and honesty are essential. However, the challenge arises when individuals attempt to identify their unique preferences that differentiate them from others. Research indicates that while there is consensus on what is commonly wanted, self-knowledge about personal likes and dislikes can be inconsistent. Insight into what individuals value that is beyond the generalized traits proves to be a complex issue that requires deeper introspection.
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