In this episode, NirAndFar discusses kids' video game obsession with a focus on Fortnite. They explore the difference between addiction and overindulgence, and discuss strategies for parents to help their children find healthier alternatives. It emphasizes the importance of self-regulation, intentional gaming, and open dialogue between parents and children.
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Quick takeaways
Video game addiction involves a lack of control and adverse consequences, but playing moderately can benefit children's psychological well-being.
The special draw of gaming lies in satisfying psychological needs like competence, autonomy, and relatedness, which many children lack in other areas of their lives.
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Gaming on its own does not cause addiction but other factors should be considered
While video games like Fortnite are generally fine and do not cause disorders like addiction on their own, it is important for parents to be aware of other factors. Children spending excessive time on video games could indicate a problem. However, addiction involves a lack of control and adverse consequences. If a child can balance gaming with other activities like socializing or sports and shows interest in studies or household chores, they are not addicted. Moderate video gameplay has even been shown to be beneficial for psychological well-being.
Video games fulfill psychological needs that other areas of life may not
The special draw of gaming lies in its ability to satisfy three psychological needs: competence, autonomy, and relatedness. Games provide players with a sense of mastery, allowing them to make decisions and solve problems creatively. Additionally, gaming provides a social outlet, enabling players to interact and chat with others. Many children today lack these essential elements in other areas of their lives, such as school, where they often feel controlled and lack autonomy. While games cannot replace real-life experiences, understanding the deeper reasons why kids enjoy gaming can help parents address their needs effectively.
Many parents are concerned with their child’s seemingly obsessive video game play. Fortnite, the most recent gaming phenomenon, has taken the world by storm and has parents asking whether the shooter game is okay for kids.
The short answer is yes, Fortnite is generally fine. Furthermore, parents can breathe easier knowing that research suggests gaming (on its own) does not cause disorders like addiction.
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