Jillian on Love DO NOT BREAK UP: When Staying Is the Better Choice
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Oct 20, 2025 What happens when love turns into a roommate situation? Jillian explores the fading passion in long-term relationships and how certainty alone may not be enough. She discusses the importance of emotional and intellectual chemistry and warns about the dangers of overpowering attraction. Hear stories of how attraction can grow over time and learn strategies to rekindle intimacy. Jillian emphasizes the need for open communication about desires and suggests ways to reconnect as a couple. Honest self-reflection is key to deciding whether to revive the spark or move on.
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Safety Isn’t A Substitute For Chemistry
- Certainty, safety, and friendship are the glue that keeps relationships together but don't replace chemistry.
- Long-term chemistry requires ongoing work and an ebb-and-flow, not just initial spark.
Give Dating Five Dates
- If you’re dating and there’s no chemistry after several dates, don’t force the relationship.
- After about five dates, be honest with yourself and the other person about your feelings.
Client Finds Attraction By Date Four
- Jillian describes a client in her 40s who wasn't initially attracted to her now-husband but felt chemistry by the fourth date.
- The shift came from his confidence, directness, and emotional availability.