Sex for Saints Episode 377 - Good Enough Sex
Jul 11, 2025
Many people feel pressured during intimacy, believing that every sexual encounter must be exceptional. This discussion introduces the concept of Good Enough Sex, focusing on emotional connection instead of perfection. It highlights how early parenthood and tough times can strain intimacy, yet simple, pressure-free experiences can revive passion. The dialogue encourages reprioritizing mutual respect and vulnerability, suggesting that consistent, satisfying intimacy is far more valuable than unrealistic expectations. Let's embrace connection, even in its most ordinary forms!
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Connection Over Performance
- Good Enough Sex reframes sex from performance to emotional connection and presence.
- Amanda Lauder argues that imperfect, ordinary sex can still be deeply meaningful.
Reconnect In Short Moments
- During early parenthood, choose short, pressure-free moments to reconnect rather than aiming for perfection.
- Prioritize presence: lying together, gentle touch, or laughter can restore closeness quickly.
Choose Gentle Intimacy During Stress
- In seasons of stress, offer gentle, pressure-free intimacy like naked cuddling or mutual touch.
- Make closeness the goal instead of forcing sexual performance or avoiding intimacy altogether.