The Next Big Idea Daily How to Raise Great Kids in a Messed-Up World
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Jun 23, 2025 
Melinda Wenner Moyer, an award-winning science journalist and regular contributor to the New York Times, shares impactful, research-backed strategies for parenting. She discusses the dangers of excessive parental pressure and the importance of resilience. Moyer emphasizes empowering children through preparation and connection, advocating for emotional intelligence by validating feelings and promoting open communication. Parents are encouraged to embrace imperfections, fostering a nurturing environment that prepares kids for today’s challenges.
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Pressure Harms Resilience
- Pressuring kids to succeed can cause low self-esteem and mental health issues.
- Emphasizing success as the only outcome reduces kids' resilience and willingness to face challenges.
Prepare Kids Over Protecting
- Prepare kids for challenges rather than shielding them from discomfort.
- Allow kids to practice resilience through real-world frustrations and risks safely.
Ask Questions, Listen Deeply
- Ask your kids questions instead of lecturing to encourage dialogue.
- Listening deeply builds connection, empathy, and helps kids feel valued and safe.