Solo – The Single Person’s Guide to a Remarkable Life Nietzsche On Friends
Jan 14, 2021
In this engaging discussion, political theorist Ruth Abbey, known for her expertise in Nietzsche and friendship, joins writer Mary Dahm. They explore Nietzsche's groundbreaking views on friendship, emphasizing that differences rather than similarities enhance our personal growth. Ruth challenges the traditional emphasis on family connections, advocating for the moral dimensions of friendship. The conversation also delves into how societal changes are reshaping our understanding of relationships, particularly for singles and the divorced, making it an insightful listen.
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Friendship's Value in Difference
- Nietzsche redefines friendship as a moral force that improves us through difference, not similarity.
- Unlike ancient models, he values friends who challenge and provoke growth through their diversity.
Friendship vs. Romance Stability
- Friendship, to Nietzsche, is stable and ethical unlike romance which is fickle and based on sexual attraction.
- Friendship transcends physical attraction and focuses on valuing moral character and lasting connection.
Value of Distance in Friendship
- Friends maintaining a productive distance prevents emotional exhaustion and preserves individuality.
- Too much closeness can wear down the soul, making friendship more fruitful when balanced with solitude.
