How I control my submissive

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Jun 3, 2024

Delve into the intriguing world of consensual control within dominance and submission relationships. Discover how personal backgrounds shape perceptions of control and the balance between being in control versus being controlling. The speakers share their transformative experiences in BDSM dynamics, emphasizing trust and emotional connections. They explore how surrendering to a loving partner fosters self-discovery and empowerment. This insightful discussion uncovers the interplay of control and love, enhancing intimacy and personal growth in relationships.

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ANECDOTE

Fifty Shades of Grey Epiphany

Dawn realized she needed to be controlled after watching Fifty Shades of Grey.
This realization was a turning point in her submission journey, marking her ownership of it.

ADVICE

Self-Control for Dominants

Dominants must prioritize self-control before controlling others.
Self-control establishes trust and ensures decisions are made from truth, not personal gratification.

INSIGHT

Patience and Giving in Dominance

Patience is crucial for dominants to allow submissives to find their authentic selves.
A dominant's focus should be on giving and guiding, not taking or forcing.

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Episode 37 - How I control my submissive

Control is a very charged word that comes with a lot of fear, judgement, and resistance. It’s also something that has often been abused.

But inside of a loving Dom/sub relationship, consensual control is a central theme. There’s turn on in taking control. Surrendering control. It’s what makes power exchange into power exchange!

In this episode, we explore control. What it is for us. The role it plays in our dynamic. The differences between being in control and being controlling. What each of us likes about the word and energy of control. The difference between control as a limiting factor and control as path to freedom, and lots more!

Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships.

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