How to be Unshakably Confident

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Apr 24, 2024

This podcast explores the journey of personal evolution, focusing on self-confidence, transparency, and owning your truth. It discusses the desire for improvement, the role of the ego in differentiation, valuing internal experiences, and embracing the process of growth. The importance of transparency, truth, and commitment in personal development is highlighted throughout the episode.

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ANECDOTE

Childhood Lies

Flynn Skidmore discusses his childhood tendency to lie for status, like claiming to be a national dodgeball champion.
He later lied about his family's wealth in college to fit in with wealthier peers.

INSIGHT

Shame and Status

Flynn realized that manipulating perceptions worked for gaining status, but it felt shameful.
He realized some people hide to avoid this manipulation, but this also stems from shame.

ADVICE

Become, Don't Pretend

Instead of lying about desired qualities, become the person you want to be perceived as.
Do the things that align with the image you wish to project.

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In this episode, I dive into the essential elements of personal evolution, focusing on the transformative power of self-confidence, transparency, and owning your truth. I kick things off with a discussion on how self-development and improvement fuel our energy and confidence. I share personal anecdotes from my experiences with surfing and tennis to illustrate the journey of understanding one's current state and desired goals.

We then delve into the desire for improvement, exploring how crucial it is to recognize how much you want to improve and the willingness to put in the hard work. Following this, I discuss the role of the ego in differentiation and individuality, unpacking the human ego's tendency towards comparison and the pursuit of status or belonging.

The conversation shifts to valuing internal experiences like joy, confidence, and peace, emphasizing the importance of cultivating these qualities within ourselves. I introduce the concept of a 'flex hierarchy', where the things you value most become your biggest 'flexes'.

As we near the end, I encourage you to embrace the process of becoming who you want to be, highlighting the importance of recognizing the gap between where you are and where you aspire to be as a space for growth rather than shame. I reflect on my journey and the lessons learned along the way.

We conclude with a reiteration of the importance of transparency, truth, and commitment. I invite you to fully commit to your own development and growth, embracing each step of the journey with hard work and repetition to achieve greatness. Join me as we navigate the complex yet rewarding path of self-discovery and improvement.

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