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A subscriber asked what to do if your partner wants to try something really "out there" in bed. I give you some incisive and clinically compelling comments like YOLO, whatever doesn't kill you etc, and even the transformational JFC get over yourself. But honestly people, you don't get a loving relationship from being a Negative Nellie, so a reframe is in order if you are always the "no" "stop" "that's weird" partner. Also since what's good for the goose is good for the gander, I discuss how if you really want to get your spouse to do the Epileptic Flamingo position or whatever you decided really floats your boat, you should be bringing your A game in all other aspects of the relationship.