Marshal Gillen, an award-winning speaker, speaker trainer, and men’s coach opens up about the wreckage and rebirth that followed his last breakup—140 days since his life fell apart, but who’s counting? He and Hector discuss the struggles men face in toxic relationships, the mind games of narcissistic abuse, and the brutal realization that maybe self-worth was never really there to begin with. This is for the guy who feels like he’s losing himself, the one searching for answers, and the one ready to take his power back. No fluff, no filters—just the raw truth about healing, masculinity, and starting over.

Chapters:

00:00:00 – Where It All Begins
00:01:56 – A Familiar Face, A Different Man
00:02:21 – The Armor We Wear, The Weight We Carry
00:04:18 – Love, Need, or Trap?
00:04:59 – The Invisible Chains We Call Love
00:06:21 – The Mirror That Love Holds Up
00:08:21 – When a Boy’s Tears Dry Too Soon
00:11:33 – The Wounds We Deny, The Patterns We Repeat
00:21:18 – Dancing in Circles with a Ghost
00:25:11 – The First Domino to Fall
00:27:24 – The Unbreakable Knot of Pain and Love
00:30:49 – When the Past Knocks, Will You Open the Door?
00:35:32 – Who Are You Without the Pain?
00:39:22 – Four Steps, A Lifetime of Change
00:40:22 – The Purpose Waiting on the Other Side
00:43:41 – Brotherhood, Sanctuary, and the Art of Being Seen
00:47:33 – Faith, Strength, and the Masculine Soul

Links and Resources:

Marshal on LinkedIn
Marshal on Instagram
All of Marshal’s Links and Resources for N.A.R.C. Support
Sacred Kingdom Church
Hector Santiesteban on LinkedIn
Hector Santiesteban on Twitter

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Love, Lies & The Narcissist’s Game with Marshal Gillen