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The Art of Accomplishment

The Desire To Be Seen with Tara Howley

Aug 16, 2024
35:15
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Tara Howley, co-founder of AOA, explores the primal need to be seen and the emotional toll of shame. She discusses how this desire shapes our behaviors and relationships, revealing why many fear acknowledgment. The conversation highlights the detrimental effects of unrecognized achievements, particularly in childhood, and the societal barriers to genuine visibility. Tara emphasizes the importance of curiosity in resolving conflicts and fostering deeper connections, urging listeners to embrace their authentic selves.
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Quick takeaways

  • The primal human need to be seen drives behaviors and shapes society, often leading to feelings of shame and inadequacy.
  • Developing self-compassion is essential for reconciling the desire for authenticity with fear, fostering deeper connections with others.

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The Primal Need to Be Seen

The desire to be seen is a fundamental aspect of human nature, rooted in our biology and social evolution. From infancy, the ability to see and be seen by caregivers is essential for safety and community connection. However, societal pressures often discourage open expressions of this need, leading to feelings of shame and the development of false identities. As individuals repress their desire for recognition, they may struggle with feelings of inadequacy and the fear of being truly visible.

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