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Theology in the Raw

S2 Ep1151: Same-Sex Attraction, Female Sexuality, and Parenting LGBTQ Kids: Ellen Radcliff

Feb 8, 2024
Ellen Radcliff, therapist and author, talks about her journey in faith and sexuality, explores the fluidity of female sexuality, and offers advice on parenting LGBTQ kids. They discuss embracing complexity, navigating uncertainty, repairing relationships, and setting boundaries in parent-child relationships.
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  • When parents respond to their child's LGBTQ identity, they should set boundaries rooted in their faith while showing unconditional love and regularly reevaluate and maintain intentional connection for a healthy relationship.
  • Parents should consider their child's age when responding to their LGBTQ identity, setting boundaries and communicating lovingly for younger children, and evaluating if accommodation aligns with their beliefs for older children, while maintaining regular communication and intentional connection.

Deep dives

Understanding a Child's Identity Exploration

When a child expresses their LGBTQ identity, it is important for parents to respond with love, validation, and gratitude for their trust. Setting boundaries and taking time to process their own emotions is crucial. Parents should seek a clear conscience before God and determine what boundaries align with their faith while still showing unconditional love. Regularly reevaluating boundaries and having intentional connection with the child helps maintain a healthy relationship. It is vital for parents to avoid shaming or acquiescing out of fear, but instead find a balance of understanding and upholding their values.

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