Strangers on a Bench EPISODE 52: People Were Scared of Us
Sep 8, 2025
A touching exploration of resilience blossoms from unique educational journeys shaped by health challenges. Light-hearted conversations intertwine with poignant reflections on juvenile rheumatoid arthritis and the importance of friendships. Nostalgia fills the air as friends bid farewell, revealing the emotional weight of transitions. The struggles of navigating identity and acceptance come to light, focusing on personal and historical challenges faced by LGBTQ+ individuals. Heartfelt stories of loss and coping during the AIDS epidemic remind us of life's harsh realities and the moments of joy found within.
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Morning Routine With Chronic Pain
- He starts the day checking joint pain from juvenile rheumatoid arthritis and takes a hot bath if needed.
- He sits on the Highgate bench to think about his late friend and their last meeting there.
Last Conversation On The Bench
- He had a last meeting on this bench with a friend who later died of cancer in 2021 and wrote a tribute about it.
- That farewell motivates him to revisit the bench and reflect before his move to Ireland.
Move Toward Personal Stability
- He argues it's better not to live in a capital city during frightening global times and political decline.
- He prioritises moving to be with his partner and away from London’s social and political stress.