Sex Birth Trauma with Kimberly Ann Johnson EP1:Christiane Pelmas on Relationships, Codependence, and Mother as Soul Guide
Sep 17, 2017
Christiane Pelmas, a psychotherapist, sexological bodyworker, and author, engages in a co-created conversation about the nuances of relationships. She highlights the distinction between codependence and interdependence, arguing that care-taking can sometimes be a form of violence. Pelmas emphasizes the often-overlooked role of mothers as soul guides and discusses the impact of modern culture on parenting. She advocates for emotional intelligence in children and a compassionate understanding of personal connections.
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Codependence vs. Interdependence
- Codependence is behavior learned to cope with unwell systems, based on wounds and deficits, not wellness.
- Interdependence prioritizes the authentic experience of each individual, fostering mutual growth and care for wholeness.
Discomfort in Relationships
- Discomfort exists in both codependent and interdependent relationships, but it differs in nature.
- Codependence involves violence, even subtly, like caretaking an alcoholic by enabling their addiction.
Women's Temple Collective
- Christiane Pelmas led a Women's Temple Collective, where women explored intimate arts, erotic encounters, and expanded their understanding of pleasure.
- The group's diverse age range and shared experiences allowed women to redefine pleasure beyond male-centric perspectives.
