

Savage Lovecast Episode 981
Aug 19, 2025
A cute gal seeks advice on becoming a more convincing dom by tapping into psychology. A newly out pan man grapples with his pubic hair while exploring gay culture. Novelist Kashana Cauley discusses the pleasure of dystopian fiction in today’s world and tackles topics like student debt and boundaries in kink. Plus, an androgynous person navigates the gay cruising scene, while listeners reflect on the complexities of intimacy in LGBTQ+ relationships and the authenticity of human expression versus AI-generated erotica.
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Trashy Pegging Scene Critique
- Dan recounts watching the pegging scene in Hunting Wives and finding it unrealistic and poorly staged.
- He highlights details like a dry strap-on set on its side, showing the scene lacked authenticity and knowledge.
Dark Blue's Dominant Evolution
- Dan shares Dark Blue's evolution from sub to dominant as an example of a petite woman psychologically dominating a larger man.
- He suggests following her feed to see a gradual shift that can inspire new dominants.
Build Dom Authority Without Brute Strength
- Practice authority by making clear demands and issuing orders your partner has consented to follow.
- Use blindfolds, ties, or staged scenarios to create psychological dominance without needing physical strength.