Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties Episode 45: Dear Ex, I Hope You're In Therapy
May 23, 2019
This episode dives into the complications of dating your boss and the importance of setting boundaries after a breakup. The hosts share valuable lessons learned from difficult exes, emphasizing personal growth and emotional boundaries. They tackle a serious letter about sexual assault, highlighting the importance of survivor autonomy and support. The discussion includes strategies for coping with a partner's absence due to illness and the need for open communication in relationships. Humor and heartfelt advice blend throughout the conversation.
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Good Habits From Bad Exes
- Sierra learned to make her bed regularly after dating an ex who always made his bed.
- Sam adopted better hydration and music tastes from past relationships, framing 'what you get from bad exes.'
Honor Boundaries And State Needs
- Respect explicit requests for time and space and lean into the awkwardness of pacing a budding relationship.
- Define boundaries and state clearly what you want so you avoid living in murky 'potential.'
Make 'Time And Space' Concrete
- Turn vague requests into concrete definitions like frequency and context of hangouts to protect your sanity.
- If you want a long-term relationship, ask for it and be willing to walk away if she says no.