The Psychology of your 20s 188. Why are we so indecisive?
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Apr 19, 2024 Indecisiveness can hold us back from the life we desire. It often arises from fears and unconscious mechanisms. The fear of failure and perfectionism plays a major role in our decision-making struggles. Discover how the 80/20 rule and the 'trusted advisor' method can empower you to make confident choices. Embracing imperfection can lead to progress, while self-care practices help ease the burden of indecision. Learn to navigate overwhelming choices and prioritize your values!
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Fear of Missing Out
- Indecisiveness stems from a fear of choosing wrong and missing out.
- This fear paralyzes us, leading to inaction and lost opportunities.
Indecisiveness Is Not Laziness
- Chronic indecisiveness leads to a lack of agency and being ruled by fear, not laziness.
- It's a time-wasting cycle of overthinking every detail, driven by a fear of choosing wrong.
Decision Fatigue
- Decision fatigue arises from facing thousands of daily decisions, leading to impulsive actions or inaction.
- This often results in choosing the easiest option, like mindless phone scrolling, due to cognitive overload.