The Psychology of your 20s

130. Relationship anxiety and being 'forever single' in your 20s ft. Katy Bellotte

Sep 29, 2023

Katy Bellotte, a YouTuber and content creator, dives into the trials of dating in your 20s, sharing her experiences of feeling 'forever single' and the pressure to settle down. She discusses the challenges of moving to New York City and how social media shapes expectations around love. The conversation touches on childhood influences on relationship anxieties, the struggle of letting go of past romances, and the importance of personal boundaries. Katy's insights offer a mix of humor and honesty, making the journey of self-discovery relatable and engaging.

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Quick takeaways

Navigating dating apps and societal expectations in your 20s can create anxiety and pressure to settle for less than you deserve.

Trusting your past decisions and experiences can lead to personal growth and self-discovery.

Building a community and making friends in a new city requires taking risks and stepping out of your comfort zone.

Deep dives

Building Connections and Finding Purpose

The podcast episode emphasizes the importance of building connections and finding purpose in today's world. It discusses how connectivity, like that provided by AT&T, allows people to reach out and grow in ways that were never before possible. It highlights the value of connecting with one's interests, changing paths, and pursuing a fulfilling purpose.

Intro

2min

Navigating Twenties: Challenges and Identities

6min

Navigating Love and Anxiety in Your 20s

31min

The Emotional Struggle of Letting Go: Positive Retrospection in Relationships

2min

Navigating Relationship Anxiety in Your 20s

2min

Building Community in a New City

7min

Navigating Relationships and Growth

4min

On today's episode we bring on the wonderful, Katy Bellotte, to discuss everything love, dating and relationship in our 20s. We discuss what it feels like to have never had a relationship in your 20s, the milestone anxiety and societal pressure that makes us to feel like we need to settle for someone we're not fully committed to, feeling behind and what it feels like to finally find the one. Katy also talks moving to New York City, what it's like to live your life online and managing expectations around social media. Listen now!

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