The Psychology of your 20s 130. Relationship anxiety and being 'forever single' in your 20s ft. Katy Bellotte
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Sep 29, 2023 Katy Bellotte, a YouTuber and content creator, dives into the trials of dating in your 20s, sharing her experiences of feeling 'forever single' and the pressure to settle down. She discusses the challenges of moving to New York City and how social media shapes expectations around love. The conversation touches on childhood influences on relationship anxieties, the struggle of letting go of past romances, and the importance of personal boundaries. Katy's insights offer a mix of humor and honesty, making the journey of self-discovery relatable and engaging.
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Katy's Dating Journey
- Katy Bellotte discusses her dating history, marked by situationships and a lack of serious relationships until 27.
- She attributes some of her dating anxieties to her parents' idyllic relationship, which set a high standard.
Love Blueprint
- Our primary example of love comes from our caregivers' relationships.
- This early blueprint shapes our expectations and anxieties surrounding dating and relationships.
Good Story vs. Good Relationship
- Host shares an anecdote about her past relationship, emphasizing that a good story doesn't guarantee a good relationship.
- The story loses its value when the relationship ends, highlighting the importance of the relationship's content over the narrative.