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The Unmistakable Creative Podcast
Todd Kashdan | The Upside of Your Dark Side
Oct 18, 2023
Todd Kashdan, an expert in human behavior, discusses the challenges of social comparison in the digital age and the impact of social media on success perceptions. He emphasizes the value of self-reflection and differentiates between theoretical knowledge and practical application. Todd delves into 'receptive resistance' and the eternal gap between who we are and who we aspire to be. The podcast explores the roles of negative emotions, toxic positivity, doubt, and confusion in personal growth. It also highlights the importance of finding balance and embracing one's own uniqueness in life.
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- Focusing on feeling good can interfere with long-term success; negative emotions can serve as catalysts for growth and improvement.
- Balance ambition with reflecting on personal growth and appreciating progress along the journey.
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Happiness as a Goal and Distress Tolerance
The pursuit of happiness is often emphasized in society, but research suggests that focusing too much on feeling good can interfere with long-term success. The ability to tolerate psychological discomfort, known as distress tolerance, is a crucial quality for achieving favorable outcomes in various domains. Negative emotions, such as anger, sadness, and dissatisfaction, can actually serve as catalysts for growth and improvement. They can enhance critical thinking, persuasive abilities, and motivation. Understanding the rationale behind these emotions can help shift the focus from pursuing immediate happiness to pursuing long-term fulfillment and development.
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