The Dr. Psych Mom Show
with clinical psychologist
Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten The Gentleman Eunuch: Why You Attract Women Who Don't Like Sex
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Nov 11, 2022 Delve into the intriguing 'gentleman eunuch' concept, where kindness often masks deeper issues in attraction. Discover how societal pressures can lead men to suppress their sexuality, inadvertently attracting partners with low sexual interest. Explore the vital dynamics of sexual expression and the necessity of open communication in romantic pursuits. Learn why misrepresenting one's sexuality can sabotage potential connections, and understand the importance of clarity in consent and physical intimacy. This engaging discussion sheds light on improving relationships and genuine connections.
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Gentleman Eunuch Definition
- The "gentleman eunuch" hides his sexuality, believing women dislike it.
- This stems from childhood experiences and a sex-negative upbringing.
Attraction to the Gentleman Eunuch
- Gentleman eunuchs attract women who dislike sex or have trauma histories.
- Avoidant women may also be drawn to their seemingly non-sexual nature.
Express Sexual Interest
- Express sexual interest early on in dating.
- Compliment a woman's looks; it's okay to say she looks hot.