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160. (S8E44) Raising Spicy Kids! with Mary Van Geffen

Dec 7, 2022
Mary Van Geffen, an international coaching expert for parents of 'spicy ones,' discusses raising spirited children, choosing connection over control in parenting, and the power of playful responses. She also shares about her classes and courses for parents of 'spicy kids.'
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Quick takeaways

  • Spicy children are highly perceptive, set boundaries, and can be caring and loving.
  • Parenting spicy children involves prioritizing connection over control and delighting in their unique qualities.

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Understanding Spicy Children

Spicy children are those who express themselves in big, dramatic ways and aren't afraid to take up space. They have intense emotions, often going from zero to 10 quickly. They can be loud, have a lot of energy, and may use mean or beautiful words. Spicy children are highly perceptive of others' feelings but may also lack awareness at times. They set boundaries with adults, prioritize themselves, and can be both sweet and caring. Parenting spicy children involves prioritizing connection over control and delighting in their unique qualities.

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