The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma} Ep. 169: The Privilege of Parenting with Safety
Parenting with co-regulating and seeing below our kids behaviors is actually a privilege we rarely talk about. It’s always a privilege, but especially when we consider different marginalized and oppressed identities that a lot of kids- and those of you listening- intersectionally hold.
In this episode, you’ll learn
- The definition of privilege (it is NOT a criticism)
- The privilege of safety for folks with histories of trauma
- The privilege of safety for folks with other marginalized and oppressed identities
- How this relates to parenting
Resources mentioned in this podcast:
- Mr. Chazz
- Yolanda Williams & Parenting Decolonized
- What Happened to You? By Bruce Perry & Oprah Winfrey
Read the full transcript at:RobynGobbel.com/privilege
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