

195. The Shape of Life with Bruce Feiler (Part 2)
7 snips May 11, 2023
Bruce Feiler, a bestselling author with a knack for exploring life's complexities, joins the discussion on navigating nonlinear careers. He reveals how family narratives shape children's emotional well-being and underscores the importance of embracing life's messiness. The conversation dives into 'lifequakes' that challenge traditional career paths and advocates for a 'meaning audit' to align personal fulfillment with aspirations. Feiler also illuminates how past struggles can transform into purpose, urging listeners to define their unique missions beyond societal success.
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Intergenerational Self
- Intergenerational self, built through family narratives, is crucial for children's well-being.
- It helps them understand that setbacks are normal and that they are not alone in facing challenges.
Comforting Story
- Bruce Feiler invented a story about his own childhood to comfort his daughter.
- This showed her she wasn't alone in her feelings about school, highlighting the power of shared narratives.
Family Narratives
- Family narratives can be ascending, descending, or oscillating.
- Children who grow up with oscillating narratives are better equipped to handle setbacks.