The Adversity Advantage with Doug Bopst cover image

The Adversity Advantage with Doug Bopst

Britt Frank On Mastering Self Regulation, Overcoming Trauma & Becoming “UNSTUCK”

Apr 28, 2022
01:00:18

Today’s is Britt Frank. Britt is a licensed psychotherapist. She's an educator and trauma specialist. She received her bachelor's from Duke and her Master's of Social Work from the University of Kansas, where she later became an award-winning adjunct professor. And the occasion for today's conversation is to talk about her new book, The Science of Stuck: Breaking Through Inertia to Find Your Path Forward to help people get unstuck and live their best lives. 

We cover how we should focus on the WHAT instead of the WHY when dealing with trauma, ways to successfully overcome addiction and lessen the chances of a relapse, what is self-regulation and why it’s important, when is the best time to seek professional help, and so much more!

Thanks to this episode's sponsor:

Magic Spoon: Visit https://magicspoon.com/ and use the promo code "DOUG" at checkout to receive $5 off your first order

Earth Echo Foods/Cacao Bliss: www.earthechofoods.com/dougbopst Use Promo code "Doug" at checkout to receive 15% off your order 

What to Listen For:

  • 00:00 Intro
  • 01:07 The biggest myth about mental health
  • 04:14 Developing self-awareness when you get stuck
  • 06:18 Staying too focused on healing a trauma
  • 08:41 It’s almost never helpful to start with the WHY question
  • 11:08 “What am I getting out of doing this?”
  • 13:23 There isn’t an easy way to change yourself
  • 17:54 What is your relationship to addiction?
  • 19:53 A healthy process to thrive in addiction recovery
  • 26:41 Here’s why self-regulation is important
  • 29:28 How do you know when to seek therapy?
  • 32:10 How to look at being lazy differently
  • 35:29 How fast are you to make changes?
  • 40:35 The WHY questions is keeping you stuck in the analysis-paralysis phase
  • 46:13 What’s your reality NOW?
  • 48:15 Always count the little wins
  • 50:59 Is self-sabotage real?

Episode Resources:

Follow me on Social Media:

Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get the Snipd
podcast app

Unlock the knowledge in podcasts with the podcast player of the future.
App store bannerPlay store banner

AI-powered
podcast player

Listen to all your favourite podcasts with AI-powered features

Discover
highlights

Listen to the best highlights from the podcasts you love and dive into the full episode

Save any
moment

Hear something you like? Tap your headphones to save it with AI-generated key takeaways

Share
& Export

Send highlights to Twitter, WhatsApp or export them to Notion, Readwise & more

AI-powered
podcast player

Listen to all your favourite podcasts with AI-powered features

Discover
highlights

Listen to the best highlights from the podcasts you love and dive into the full episode