What happens when researchers analyze 238 studies spanning 51 years and 38 countries? They discover one consistent truth: autonomy support leads to thriving kids, while psychological control leads to struggling ones. Learn why guilt, shame and coercion damage child wellbeing, and discover the three practical steps to becoming a more supportive parent. Plus, understand why this holds true across all cultures and age groups.

Quote of the Episode: "If you want to be a great parent, and there was one variable that mattered more than anything else, this is it. It's about autonomy support."

Key Insights:

Meta-analysis covered 238 studies across 51 years
Research included 126,000 participants from 38 countries
Results consistent across cultures and age groups
Psychological control leads to maladaptive perfectionism
Control linked to depression 12 months later
Reducing control improves academic performance
Findings apply from toddlers through adolescence
Three types of control: autonomy support, psychological control, and behavioral control

Resources Mentioned:

Emma Bradshaw's meta-analysis study
The Parenting Revolution book
University of Sydney research
Happy Families

Action Steps for Parents:

Explore: Take your child's perspective and understand their viewpoint
Explain: Provide clear rationales for rules and limits
Empower: Work together to develop frameworks and boundaries

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