Coaching Real Leaders

How Do I Deal with a Competitive Peer?

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May 19, 2025
A leader confronts the challenges of competing against a former mentor who is now her peer. The discussion emphasizes navigating contrasting leadership styles and fostering emotional resilience. Strategies for self-advocacy and enhancing visibility in a competitive environment are shared. The conversation highlights the complexities of workplace dynamics, the need for proactive communication, and the significance of self-acknowledgment in gaining recognition and confidence amidst competition. Ultimately, personal growth and self-leadership take center stage.
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ANECDOTE

Unexpected Leadership Rivalry

  • Elsie was unexpectedly thrust into leadership by a former mentor who became her peer and competitor.
  • Their clashing leadership styles and the peer's behavior are significant obstacles in her career advancement.
INSIGHT

Quiet Leadership Often Overlooked

  • Being quiet and observant can cause a leader to fly under the radar, especially if the culture values loudness.
  • Leadership styles that differ from norm might be less visible but still effective.
ADVICE

Proactively Seek Visibility

  • Make yourself visible proactively by initiating meetings with executives to provide updates.
  • Stop waiting for invitations and create genuine conversations to show your value.
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