Truth in Love TIL 510: Boundaries in Counseling (feat. Jim Newheiser)
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Mar 31, 2025 Jim Newheiser, a director of the Christian Counseling Program and professor in pastoral theology, discusses the importance of boundaries in counseling. He explains why this concept has gained traction and explores its biblical foundations. Newheiser highlights practical ways to set limits that honor God while addressing common challenges like overcommitment. He critiques modern interpretations of boundaries and advocates for a biblically grounded approach that balances personal needs with serving others. Don’t miss his insights on navigating these vital relational dynamics!
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Boundaries' Popularity
- Boundaries have become popular in Christian counseling because they address the common feeling of being overwhelmed or taken advantage of.
- The Cloud and Townsend book resonates with people by acknowledging these struggles.
Biblical Basis for Boundaries
- While the Bible doesn't explicitly mention "boundaries," it supports setting limits when threatened.
- The criteria for boundaries should be pleasing God, not self.
Setting Biblical Limits
- Base relationship limits on loving God, loving others, and fulfilling your unique calling.
- Prioritize these over excessive demands, even from family.
