Let’s Get Real with Stephen Jones You Can Date Anyone. So Why Are We So Alone? | Dr. Brian Willoughby E0034
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Jun 5, 2025 
Dr. Brian Willoughby, a BYU professor specializing in marriage and family relationships, dives into the challenges of modern dating. He discusses how swipe culture is leading to delayed marriages and emotional detachment. Willoughby critiques the rise of 'Me-Marriage' and highlights the impact of individualism on intimacy. He encourages embracing commitment and covenant relationships, emphasizing the value of genuine connection amidst digital distractions. The conversation is a blend of heartfelt insights and hopeful guidance for navigating love in today's world.
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Modern Dating Is More Complex
- Dating today is harder due to eroded social norms and increased life choices.
- Unlike past generations, young adults face uncertainty about intentions and life paths in early dating.
Dating Culture Promotes Passivity
- Modern dating culture promotes a passive "on-demand" relationship mindset that erodes agency.
- Real intimacy requires building and working on relationships, unlike instant gratification.
Online Dating Drives Rejection Fear
- Online dating creates illusion of infinite choice but intensifies rejection sensitivity.
- Swiping many times leads to frequent rejections, causing anxiety, even among matched individuals.