The Problem with Smart Kids and Loneliness

Smart kids often face a unique set of problems growing up, leading to feelings of loneliness. As children, their identity is often based on their one-dimensional intelligence, which equates to effortless success. They start avoiding activities that require effort, leading to a narrowing of their hobbies and social exposure. Their intelligence becomes a problem-solving tool for managing social interactions, but it becomes cognitively exhausting. This results in social isolation and a defensive arrogance, where they feel reluctant to engage with others. Their attempts to use intelligence to boost self-esteem are ineffective, as intelligence is not designed for self-esteem but for problem-solving.