Ask Lisa: The Psychology of Raising Tweens & Teens

169: How Do We Move Our Family Without Damaging Our Kids?

May 7, 2024

Dr. Lisa and Reena discuss how to support kids during a big move, emphasizing the importance of validating emotions and involving children in decision-making. They address misconceptions about moving at a young age and share tips on helping children cope with transitions. The episode also explores therapy techniques for children, promoting financial responsibility, and strategies for managing emotions during challenging transitions.

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ANECDOTE

Lisa's Childhood Moves

Dr. Lisa Damour moved frequently during her childhood, including internationally.
These experiences shaped her perspective on moving and transitions.

INSIGHT

Benefits of Moving

Frequent moves can build resilience and adaptability in children, similar to military kids' experiences.
Starting over in new communities becomes less daunting.

ADVICE

Acknowledge and Validate Feelings

Acknowledge children's distress and validate their feelings about moving.
Focus on providing support and understanding during the transition.

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Dr. Lisa and Reena tackle the challenge of making a big move with kids. A parent writes in with concerns about her kids' reactions to the news of the move and asks how to best support them through the transition. Dr. Lisa provides insights on how parents can prepare kids for moving and offers age-specific strategies for helping children cope. Dr. Lisa and Reena discuss the importance of validating emotions, maintaining predictability, and involving children - when possible - in decision-making. Dr. Lisa also addresses common misconceptions about the implications of moving at a young age and explores the benefits of parents sharing their own feelings about the transition. Tune in for practical tips and guidance on navigating family transitions with empathy and resilience.

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Ask Lisa: The Psychology of Raising Tweens & Teens is the essential podcast for parents seeking expert guidance, tested strategies, and psychological insights on raising kids, especially tweens and teens. Join renowned clinical psychologist Dr. Lisa Damour and former journalist and mom of two Reena Ninan as they explore real-life parenting challenges. Looking to learn more about how to boost kids’ resilience, build their confidence, or support their emotional well-being? Dr. Lisa and Reena have got you covered! Together they address listener questions about stress, anxiety, social media concerns, school pressures, and challenges in peer relationships. Each episode provides practical advice and science-backed solutions to help parents raise resilient, confident, and emotionally healthy kids. Tune in every week for the latest topics in parenting, child psychology, and family wellness. Get answers to your most pressing parenting questions. New episodes drop every Tuesday.

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