Modern Wisdom

#498 - Roy Baumeister - The Mystery Of Female Sex Drive

Jul 11, 2022

Roy Baumeister, a social psychologist and expert on sexual interactions, reveals captivating insights into the complexities of female sexuality. He explores why women's sexual drives differ from other species, how they often shape male behavior, and the reasons behind shifting sexual desires in relationships. Delving into the evolutionary dimensions, he discusses the paradox of male sexual attraction and the intriguing concept of 'post-nut clarity.' Baumeister's research highlights the cultural implications that affect sexual satisfaction and behavior in modern society.

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Are You Having a Good Sex Life?

03:01

Is the Orgasm a Sensation?

03:54

The Tragedy of the Male Sex Strife

05:14

The Suppression of Female Sexual Desire

04:01

Intro

2min

The Evolutionary Dynamics of Gender: A Biological Perspective

4min

The Dynamics of Sexual Attraction

23min

Shifts in Sexual Desire: Gender Dynamics

16min

Exploring Post-Nut Clarity and Sexual Drive Dynamics

2min

The Paradox of Masochism

14min

Evolution of Sexual Behavior and Relationships

19min

Roy Baumeister is a social psychologist at the University of Queensland and an author.

The social psychology of sexual interactions is fascinating. Sex is more than just a physical act, it has cultural, emotional, spiritual, psychological and social implications, many of which we are unaware of. Thankfully Roy has spent years studying the literature on why people have sex and what's going right and wrong with it.

Expect to learn why the female sex drive doesn't occur in the same way anywhere else in the animal kingdom, why women shape men more than men shape women, why more women have tried being bisexual but more men are gay, why there is very little evidence for a cultural suppression of female sexuality from men, why the male sex drive is a tragedy and much more...

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