The Real Marriage Podcast How to Be Great In-Laws
May 19, 2025
Discover insights on becoming great in-laws, focusing on establishing healthy boundaries. The importance of prioritizing your child's marriage is emphasized while navigating complex family dynamics. Learn how to nurture independence in your married children's lives and finances. The discussion also covers generosity during family gatherings, balancing support with respect for autonomy. Finally, communication and adaptability are crucial for maintaining healthy relationships once your child is married.
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Respect New Family Boundaries
- When your child marries, remember they create a new family with their spouse.
- Respect that their primary loyalty shifts to their spouse and new family unit.
Give Money, No Strings Attached
- Avoid lending money to married children; instead, give gifts without expecting repayment.
- Support financially without strings to bless their new family responsibly.
Pay for Invitations Fully
- Pay the full cost when inviting your married kids to dinners or vacations.
- Give freely and graciously to bless without expectation or control.