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Reading Pace Anecdote
- Coulter shares a personal example of reading a book with his wife where they read at different paces.
- His attempt to speed up to match her pace led to frustration and disconnect as they couldn't stay on the same chapter.
Pace Doesn't Equal Advancement
- Emotional growth paces differ and doesn't mean one partner is more emotionally advanced.
- Expressing emotions more intensely or using new coping strategies imperfectly doesn't equal emotional superiority.
Use Curiosity Over Criticism
- Use curiosity instead of criticism when noticing differences in emotional growth.
- Ask your partner how they experience your changes and invite open dialogue without judgment.