Pardon the Mess with Courtney DeFeo - Christian Motherhood, Biblical Parenting, Raising Christian Kids Q&A with Ella DeFeo and Landry Smith
What a thrill to interview my oldest daughter and one of her very best friends. Ella and Landry have been friends since 3rd grade and it’s so special to hear from two young women that are keeping their faith a priority in college. I ask them about their “favorites” from tennis shoes to rom-coms and then we get into some more serious topics.
My favorite moment is when I ask each of them, “What is God teaching you right now?” I was blown away by their answers and also felt so thankful that they are both engaged in their college church communities. Ask your kiddos that question this Christmas break and let them share about their faith. I am always astounded when I learn how much depth and wisdom is in these teens. They are wiser than you know.
You also don’t want to miss my opening story about an “elf on the shelf” adventure gone wrong. I am still feeling a little rattled from it.
00:00 Introduction and Guest Introductions
07:05 High School Experiences and Advice
10:02 Navigating Junior Year Challenges
14:54 Senior Year Reflections and Relationships
18:26 Maintaining Faith in High School
23:35 Parental Guidance and Support
25:37 Navigating High School Dynamics
26:56 Understanding Teen Communication
28:04 The High School Experience: Challenges and Growth
30:51 Transitioning to College Life
33:35 Building Friendships in College
37:48 Spiritual Growth and Lessons Learned
43:18 Legacy of Love: Lessons from Grandmothers
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Resources from today’s show:
Ella’s new sneakers - Back 70
Yahtzee Game
Nertz Game
Quiplash (on Apple TV)
New Morning Mercies devotional
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