149. Overcoming Shame as a Parent w/ Louis Weinstock

In this episode of Bridging Connections, we talk with Louis Weinstock, a seasoned child psychotherapist and author. This discussion centers on overcoming shame and guilt in parenting, the importance of parental healing, and the impact of unresolved traumas on children. Louis shares personal experiences and professional insights on being a present and effective parent. We also delve into the roles of fathers, the concept of divine masculinity, and the importance of congruence and presence for children's psychological well-being. The episode concludes with a focus on daily acts of love and practical advice for parents to be more present with their children.

00:00 Introduction

00:41 Introduction to Bridging Connections

01:32 Meet Louis: Child Psychotherapist and Author

02:52 The Journey of Fatherhood

03:36 Navigating Grief and Loss

07:07 The Protector Role in Parenting

16:49 Healing and Emotional Presence

33:25 Emotional Breakthrough in a Singing Workshop

34:16 The Last Barrier for Men: Fear

35:04 Expressing Emotions: Anger, Fear, and Sadness

37:20 The Role of Fathers and the Impact of Guilt

39:05 Boys' Sensitivity and Cultural Conditioning

40:19 Defining Positive Masculinity

49:48 Bridging Connections Between Parents

59:56 The Importance of Presence in Parenting

01:02:35 Conclusion

Connect with Louis:

• Website: https://louisweinstock.com/

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