Come Back Podcast Porn & sex addiction led to betrayal & excommunication, until Steven finally found hope in recovery
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Oct 26, 2025 In this enlightening conversation, Steven Croshaw, a dedicated recovery advocate and co-founder of SA Lifeline, shares his transformative journey from sexual addiction to recovery. His wife, Rhyll, a betrayal-trauma recovery author, adds her vital perspective as a betrayed partner. They dive into the moment of radical honesty that changed everything, the complexities of addiction, and the devastating impact of betrayal. They also discuss important parental strategies for safeguarding children against pornography, offering hope and practical insights for those facing similar challenges.
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Secret Addiction Hidden For Decades
- Steven shares discovering pornography at age six and starting sexual acting out in adolescence.
- He hid a decades-long secret life from Rhyll until confessing at age 36 with five young children.
Arrest As The Turning Point
- Steven describes an arrest for picking up a prostitute that became his turning point toward honesty and recovery.
- Three weeks later he confessed publicly and felt immediate relief that catalyzed lasting change.
Forgiveness Versus Trust
- Rhyll distinguishes forgiveness from trust and centers her healing on God first.
- She explains trust must be re-earned and forgiveness is a separate, spiritual process.
