Sex for Saints Episode 63 - Wanting More From Your Spouse
Jul 5, 2019
Wanting more from a spouse can spark intriguing discussions. Ever wondered how personal perceptions shape marital satisfaction? Explore the importance of cultivating love and connection within relationships. Hear personal anecdotes that highlight family dynamics and community involvement. Discover the significance of self-sufficiency in enhancing peace and happiness in your marriage. Why do we always seek more, and what happens when those needs are met? Dive into the nuances of love, kindness, and fulfillment.
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Self-Meet Your Needs First
- Identify what you want more of in your marriage by making a list of needs like love, help, peace, or sex.
- Reflect on how you can meet those needs yourself without expecting your spouse to change.
Drop Expectations, Find Solutions
- Drop the "shoulds" about how your spouse must act to avoid resentment.
- Find alternative ways to get help, like hiring cleaners or swapping childcare with friends.
Creatively Meet Sex Needs
- Define how you can meet your sex needs in your marriage creatively and lovingly.
- Initiate intimacy more or discuss mutually acceptable practices like masturbation.