Pulling The Thread with Elise Loehnen

A 4-Step Process for Changing the Patterns That Hold You Back (Gabby Bernstein)

31 snips
Jan 2, 2025
Join Gabby Bernstein, a spiritual teacher and New York Times bestselling author, as she unveils a transformative four-step process inspired by Internal Family Systems therapy. Discover how to recognize and nurture the childlike parts within us that influence our behaviors, including people-pleasing and controlling tendencies. Gabby shares personal stories and therapeutic techniques to foster self-awareness and healing, emphasizing the journey toward authentic self-discovery and manifestation through compassionate engagement with our inner selves.
Ask episode
AI Snips
Chapters
Books
Transcript
Episode notes
INSIGHT

Understanding Parts

  • We have sub-personalities, called parts, that influence our behavior.
  • These parts, even negative ones, try to protect us from past traumas.
INSIGHT

Protectors and Exiles

  • Protector parts develop to shield us from painful exiled emotions.
  • IFS therapy involves befriending these protectors, not eliminating them.
ADVICE

Recognizing Patterns

  • Recognize undesirable feelings or patterns you'd like to change.
  • Identify if there's something "up" for you to work on, like anxiety or controlling behaviors.
Get the Snipd Podcast app to discover more snips from this episode
Get the app