Code Switch Why laughing while crying is so Korean
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Jan 15, 2025 Youngmi Mayer, a comedian and author of "I'm Laughing Because I'm Crying," dives into the rich tapestry of Korean humor. She discusses how laughter often emerges from sorrow, revealing humor as a survival tool in her family. Mayer reflects on the complexities of identity for Korean adoptees and the impact of cultural heritage on comedy. She shares personal experiences illustrating how humor connects generations, while also addressing the bittersweet relationships with her parents and the healing power of laughter amidst inherited struggles.
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TikTok Impersonation
- Youngmi Mayer's TikTok video impersonating a white person in an Asian restaurant sparked Skylar's interest.
- It reminded Skylar of the blog "Stuff White People Like" and resonated with their experience as a transracial adoptee.
Humor as Survival
- Skylar discusses using humor as a coping mechanism growing up as one of the few Asian kids in a predominantly white environment.
- They viewed their dark sense of humor as a byproduct of their trauma as a transracial adoptee.
Korean Humor
- Youngmi Mayer discusses the misconception that Korean culture doesn't value humor.
- She highlights how Koreans use humor, especially in service positions where they might feel oppressed.
