

Erotic Themes & Sexual Styles — with Elaine Yonge
15 snips Dec 20, 2020
Elaine Yonge, an ISTA Lead Facilitator and tantra educator, dives into the profound intersections of sexuality and spirituality. She unveils the four erotic themes—longing, breaking boundaries, power dynamics, and ambivalence. Elaine emphasizes that these themes enhance sexual pleasure and personal growth. They discuss the importance of intention in intimacy, recognizing trauma's influence on sexual energy, and releasing shame surrounding emotions. With practical tips for practitioners, this conversation is a compelling guide to deeper sexual understanding.
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Early Curiosity
- Elaine Yonge developed an early interest in sexual exploration and fantasy.
- Her curiosity led her to diverse experiences, eventually finding conscious exploration more fulfilling than less-aware encounters.
Erotic Themes
- Jack Morin's book, The Erotic Mind, emphasizes the mind-body connection in understanding erotic themes.
- Morin views eroticism as a broader concept encompassing various aspects of life beyond sexual intimacy.
Identifying Themes
- Reflect on your peak sexual experiences and fantasies to identify common themes.
- Consider "troublesome turn-ons" – experiences that both arouse and disturb you.