Spiritual Sexual Shamanic Podcast

There are moments when effort ceases to have the effect it once did. When pushing, planning, and deciding create more tension than less. At these junctures, we can sense that the next step won’t come from thinking harder, but from listening more deeply.In this episode, Simon Marvell is joined by artist, creator, and transformational guide, Dane Tomas, for an exploration of how we can each embrace magick, release ourselves into sensitivity, and learn to listen to the current of life.Dane shares his understanding of magick not as spectacle or superstition, but as intentional action aligned with the deepest layers of self, cosmos, and consciousness. He guides us through the relationship between will and surrender, and the surprising overlap between the path of the magician and the path of the mystic.The conversation weaves through themes of cultural lineage and spiritual inheritance, questioning where our practices come from and what it means to work with traditions that genuinely fit our bodies, nervous systems, and lived realities. Dane reflects on his journey through Western esotericism, sex magic, shadow work, and non-dual practice, and on the moments where letting go of identity became a doorway to profound change.A central thread of the episode is listening to the current: learning to attune not just intellectually, but somatically and energetically, to what wants to move through us — in ritual, creativity, sexuality, and major life decisions.This episode invites a shift in orientation away from forcing clarity, and toward trusting the subtle movements already shaping our lives.  To learn more about Dane’s work, visit his links:👉 https://www.danetomas.com/👉Instagram: @dane.tomasIf you loved this episode, please rate the podcast and share it with your friends — it helps this work reach more people.To learn more about ISTA, visit our links:👉 https://ista.life/👉 Instagram: @ista.community

Does it genuinely make you happy when your partner is enjoying themselves on a trip with their other lover? Or perhaps you’ve felt a sense of elation when a friend or colleague receives a well-deserved promotion or prestigious award? If you’ve ever been uplifted by someone else’s positive experience, even when it doesn’t directly involve you, then you’ve encountered "compersion".In today’s episode, Usha Rose delves into the intriguing concept of compersion with guest Dr. Marie Thouin, the author of What is Compersion? Understanding Positive Empathy in Consensually Non-Monogamous Relationships, the first comprehensive scholarly work on this topic.While compersion is often associated with non-monogamous relationships, it’s clear that anyone can benefit from understanding and embracing this experience.You might be wondering:Is compersion an innate trait, or can it be cultivated?Can you feel jealousy and compersion simultaneously?Is compersion a requirement in non-monogamous relationships?We address these questions and explore:The six factors that enhance compersionHow compersion manifests differently across contexts and situations, and strategies for navigating these variationsCommon barriers to experiencing compersion and techniques for overcoming themHow compersion can serve as a guiding principle in relationships, fostering growth, connection, and intimacyYou can learn more about Dr Marie Thouin on her website: https://mariethouin.com/Or follow her on IG: @drmariethouinTo learn more about ISTA visit our website: https://ista.life/Or follow us on social media: @ista.community

The tales of old tell us about the cruels of fate and great heroes following their destiny. Often, overcoming our fate is exactly how a fictional hero is made. But, as ISTA facilitator Robbie Griffin explains, these are not just myths to be left in fantasy worlds. Fate and destiny are lodged in the DNA of human experience and reflecting on them helps us understand our very human lives. Fate refers to the cards we are dealt in life, both good and bad. It encompasses our family make-up, our upbringing, the culture we’re from, and the opportunities we’ve had. Destiny is both what we choose to do with those cards, and how we go about doing it. As Robbie explains, it's important to take care of those parts of ourselves that feel hurt by fate. Likewise, we can connect to our destiny and find our genius, that inner spirit which is uniquely our own. Through a beautifully spontaneous conversation, Robbie and Simon Marvell explore the tender feelings and vulnerable experiences that we often need to integrate in order to tap into our greatest potential, whatever that may look like. We hope it brings inspiration and insight you can apply to your own journey.  Robbie Griffin is a founding member and facilitator of Emergence Brotherhood, the founder of Temple of Alchemy London, and supports people 1-on-1 to embrace their unique gifts. https://www.robbiegriffin.life@robbiegriffinalchemy  To learn more about ISTA, visit our website: https://ista.lifeOr follow us on Instagram: @ista.community

You may have experienced a time in your life when you felt part of some great oneness. Not easy to explain to another person, right? Mystics have grappled with these experiences for as long as there have been mystics, coming up with many poetic ways of referring to them.  In this episode, Simon Marvell speaks with ISTA facilitator and psychologist, Laura Deva, about a similar, poetic idea that has become prominent in recent years: it's called "the dark." As Laura explains, "the dark" doesn't refer to shadowy parts of our unconscious, nor to evil. Rather, the dark is, precisely, a difficult-to-explain state of existence. It can be distinguished from the personality and the soul in that it is what exists beyond their limits. And yet, the dark can be felt in them. Indeed, we can feel the dark in our daily lives, to our great benefit!While this might seem like an abstract topic, Laura brings it right down to earth for us, while still offering a taste of how the dark can be felt. To learn more about Laura, visit her links: Upcoming retreat: Living from the Mystery, 20-24 November 2025, Germany. Laura's Tandava online course6-month online mentorship with LauraLaura on InstagramIf you loved this episode, please rate it and share it with your friends!And to learn more about ISTA, visit our website: https://ista.life/Or follow us on social media: @ista.community

In this episode, Simon Marvell speaks with ISTA Facilitator Aaron Mandelbaum about the importance of integration after transformational experiences. Going to a retreat for spiritual growth or personal development can be like shaking a snow globe. It can send flurries of emotions, thoughts, and experiences wildly into the air. At some point you need to let the snow settle into its new place. Only then can sustainable shifts in how you live your life begin to establish themselves.Aaron reveals the different ways that ISTA teachers suggest people integrate and explains why each of them are so supportive. He and Simon also discuss Aaron's unique approach to facilitation, his transition from the business world to spiritual work, and the significance of community and connection in personal growth. They address the challenges that may arise after intense experiences, especially when shamanic practices are involved, and the power of navigating these emotions alongside other people.They also discuss: How Aaron is like a cross between George Carlin and Mr RogersHow patience, presence, and process infuses all he doesThe perils of being a “shamasochist”What your loved ones might be experiencing when you’re awayThe ISTA Integration portal for graduatesThe global online groups accessible to graduatesTo connect with Aaron, visit his website: https://aaronmandelbaum.com/ISTA offerings many trainings each month, all around the world. To learn more, visit our website: https://ista.life/Or follow us on social media: @ista.community

In this episode, Usha Rose sits down with her longtime friend and colleague Kay’aleya Hunnybee, a clinical herbalist and integrative health coach, to explore the true power of herbs as aphrodisiacs, not just for boosting libido, but for supporting whole-body vitality, nourishing the nervous system, and enhancing pleasure from the inside out.Rather than offering a generic list of aphrodisiac herbs, Kay’aleya guides us through a holistic, nuanced approach to understanding our sensuality and sexual well-being. Together, we dive into how herbs work, why not all aphrodisiacs are the same, and how to choose the right plants for your unique body, lifestyle, and needs.Kay’aleya shares 5 core areas for enhancing pleasure from an herbal perspective, along with practical insights and examples of herbs that support each one. You’ll also learn how to develop an intimate relationship with herbs and plants as allies for long-term sexual vitality, not just quick fixes.In this episode, you’ll discover:Why aphrodisiac is an oversimplified term and what actually mattersThe importance of understanding your individual needs5 key areas for using herbs to enhance pleasure and arousalExamples of herbs in each of those categoriesCreative, unexpected ways to work with herbs for sexual well-beingIf you’ve ever wondered which herbs might actually help you feel more alive, nourished, and sensually vibrant, this episode will give you a rich foundation to start your own herbal pleasure journey.About Kay’aleya Hunnybee Kay’aleya is a clinical herbalist, bodyworker, and integrative health coach specializing in menstrual, hormonal, and sexual health. Her work supports everything from menstrual cycle care and breast health to postpartum healing and navigating menopause. She teaches an online Natural Contraception program, offers pelvic and abdominal bodywork & herbal care in midcoast Maine, and hosts the Herbal Womb Wisdom podcast. Her greatest wish is for others to experience the healing potential of their bodies and cultivate deep kinship with the earth and its plants.Learn more at: https://www.herbalwomb.com/To learn more about ISTA, visit our website: https://ista.life/

In this episode, Jeff DeLone shares his journey from a conventional, yet emotionally suppressed, upbringing in the United States to discovering the power of feeling and releasing emotions.Growing up in a large Catholic family, Jeff was surrounded by people but often felt alone. Looking back, he recognizes signs of inherited depression and the impact of unexpressed emotions. After excelling in school and sports, he entered the corporate world, only to find it unfulfilling. His turning point came when he began attending transformational workshops, where he encountered tools that helped him navigate life’s challenges without relying on old patterns like drinking.This exploration eventually led him to become a teacher of the Release Technique, a method that helps people fully feel and then let go of difficult emotions instead of repressing them. As Jeff emphasizes, the technique is less about intellectual understanding and more about direct experience. In the episode, he guides listeners through simple yet powerful exercises for noticing and releasing stuck feelings.One of his key insights is about working with fear: rather than resisting it, we can meet fear with love and allow it to move through us. He also explains how the ego resists letting go, preferring to stay in the mind. In contrast, this practice opens the door to truly living, not just thinking or doing.Jeff also touches on:The history of the Release TechniqueWhat lies beneath our most difficult feelingsHow to release the grip of the mindRelating to emotions like musical notesTransforming fear into courageHeart-centered meditation practicesIt’s a rich and inspiring conversation with a down-to-earth teacher exploring some pretty “out there” ideas.Links from the episode:Release TechniqueHealing the Heart of AmericaIf you enjoyed this episode, please rate it and share it with friends!Learn more about ISTA at ista.life

Jasmeen Hana, Egyptian spirituality facilitator (and previous ISTA facilitator), speaks with Caitlyn Cook about her journey of self-discovery, spirituality, and community living. From a multicultural background, she has moved through crises of identity, spiritual revelation, and many years of global travelling, to finally settle in her community in rural Egypt. Drawing deeply from her expertise in ancient Egyptian mythology and culture, Jasmeen explains the importance of bringing offerings to the land (not just taking) and of commitment. When we can let go of our striving and driving to achieve, she says, we can become like nature, allowing life to emerge from within. Jasmeen emphasizes the importance of *taking action* to bring the mystical world, to which many of us are connected, into reality. As we aim to do this more, it seems, shadow work is essential, but so too is drawing on what is in our light. In fact, there are several things that could be in the way of us slowing down and committing to our chosen path... Jasmeen and Caitlyn also explore: How mythology helped Jasmeen find her place in the world.Respecting and listening to the land as we would a lover. Stability as a marker of power in ancient Egypt.Doubt as a block to right action in the worldHow our dreams matter and contribute to the collective vision for a better world.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Jasmeen Hana and Her Journey04:58 The Role of Land and Community in Spirituality09:56 The Importance of Giving Back to the Land14:52 Commitment as a Path to Freedom19:47 Finding Balance Between Movement and Stability26:58 The Nature of Commitment29:31 Shadow and Light Work31:57 Embracing Self-Worth34:53 Life Beyond Materialism36:35 Bridging Spirituality and Daily Life39:58 The Power of Action43:37 Community and Shared Vision47:22 The Beauty of ImperfectionAbout Jasmeen HanaJasmeen is a Kemetic spiritual and shamanic facilitator, community builder, and founder of Bliss School, a digital platform offering holistic education, leadership development, and shamanic awareness programs supported by the ancient Egyptian wisdom teachings. She is currently based in southern Egypt, where she has co-founded the development of an Ancient-future regenerative village project focused on community well-being and sustainable living, as well as temple life. Jasmeen’s website: https://www.bliss.school/SPECIAL OFFER for ISTA podcast listeners: to receive a discount on online courses in Jasmeen’s Bliss School (link above), use the discount code “LOTUSGIFT” at check-out. Jasmeen on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@Blissschool-JasmeenHanaJasmeen on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jasmeen_hana_/And to learn more about ISTA, visit https://ista.life/Or follow us on social media: @ista.community

In this episode, ISTA facilitator Usha Rose speaks with systemic therapist and transformational guide Lars Borgmann about how to engage in conflict with others in a better way.  As Lars explains, conflict can occur in any area of our lives, but our experiences of it are often so unpleasant that we aim to avoid it at any cost. Without being dealt with, it can fester underneath the surface of our relationships, causing even more problems.  What we should do is stop seeing conflict as an indication that someone has done something wrong. Instead, we should take a systemic approach and see that everyone has their own internal conflicts, and their own complex desires, that are influencing the tense interaction. If we see conflict as an opportunity for us to grow in our relationships with others, then we can begin collaborating with those we’re clashing with and create new solutions to the problems we’re facing.  Lars speaks about how we can make this happen. He also addresses: ·      Bringing love to conflict·      Letting go of our need to control the truth·      How conflicts are actually made-up of many smaller conflicts·      The influence of past experience on present interactions·      How 99% of our issues with others have already occurred within ourselves If you loved this episode, why not rate it and share it with your friends! To learn more about ISTA, visit our website: ista.lifeOr follow us on social media: @ista.community

It's not just the stuff of science fiction. As ISTA Lead faculty member Michal Maayan Don explains, bending time is possible when we drop deeply into what we love to do. That may be easier said than done. But if we aim to be more authentic, and practice healthy boundaries, we might be surprised by how quickly that sense of timelessness can come about. In this spontaneous and bubbly conversation, Michal and Simon Marvell also explore themes of vibrations, connection, and uncaging eros. They delve into the importance of touch in fostering aliveness and the collective intelligence that emerges in group settings. Overall, the emphasis is on our need to reconnect with the spirit in matter and the significance of love and land in our lives. TAKEAWAYSVibrations signify a higher level of aliveness in our bodies.Touch is essential for genuine connection and communication.Sexual energy can be uncaged and expressed in unconventional forms.Timelessness can be experienced in deep connections with others.Love and connection to the land enhance our experiences.Collective intelligence emerges when groups vibrate together.Spirit is present in matter and can be felt through our bodies.Reconnecting with our instincts is crucial for healthy boundaries.Vulnerability in groups fosters deeper connections and love.TIMESTAMPS00:00 Introduction to Vibrations and Aliveness03:10 The Power of Touch and Connection06:31 Uncaging Eros: Redefining Sexuality12:44 The Intelligence of the Body and Instincts19:57 The Role of Boundaries and Emotional Energy25:30 Experiencing Timelessness in Connection31:31 Love and Connection with the Land39:30 Acknowledging Indigenous Connections to Land43:01 The Spirit in Matter and Animal Instincts51:44 The Vibrational Intelligence of Groups