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Heart of Dating

S11 Ep207: Red Flag: Age Gap, Cheating, Liars, Politics… and More

Oct 25, 2023
The hosts discuss various red flags in dating relationships, including age gaps and cheating. They debate whether these red flags should be deal breakers or not, sharing personal experiences and discussing the importance of emotional and spiritual maturity. They also explore topics such as jealousy, judging others, and deal breakers like virginity and vaccines. The chapter concludes with the hosts expressing their excitement for a sermon and giving financial advice.
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Quick takeaways

  • Having an age gap in a relationship is not necessarily negative, but it's crucial to evaluate if you are in the same life stage and have aligned growth goals.
  • Past instances of cheating can be a red flag in a relationship, but it's crucial to have open and honest conversations about it.

Deep dives

Red Flags in Relationships

Having a significant age gap in a relationship is not necessarily a red flag, but it's important to consider if you're in the same stage of life and have a similar outlook on growth. Cheating in the past can be a red flag, but it depends on the individual's ownership and healing from their actions. Boundaries regarding physical intimacy can be a red flag if there is a significant difference between partners' preferences. Jealousy can be a red flag if it stems from insecurity or control. Narcissistic tendencies should be taken seriously as a red flag, but using the label of narcissism should not be done lightly. Judgmental and holier-than-thou attitudes can be a red flag as they may indicate a lack of grace and empathy. Dishonesty, whether it's outright lying or white lies, is a definite red flag as it undermines trust and communication in a relationship.

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