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Curious Minds at Work

CM 279: Brian Lowery on Who You Really Are

Nov 17, 2024
In this engaging conversation, Brian Lowery, a Stanford professor and social psychologist, shares insights from his book, *Selfless*. He argues that our identities are fluid and shaped by social relationships, challenging the myth of a constant self. Lowery emphasizes the role of community and culture in personal development, critiques the notion of meritocracy, and highlights how our neighborhoods influence success. His refreshing perspective invites us to embrace diverse thoughts and reconsider how we define ourselves in a constantly changing world.
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Quick takeaways

  • Our identities are constantly evolving through social interactions and relationships, illustrating that the self is not a fixed entity.
  • Environmental contexts profoundly shape our identities and opportunities, emphasizing the interconnectedness of identity and social surroundings.

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The Self as a Social Construct

The self is largely shaped by social interactions and relationships, rather than being a fixed entity. This perspective argues that our identities evolve through our connections with family, friends, communities, and even our environments. For example, a person may see themselves as an artist only after engaging in creative interactions with others, highlighting that skills and characteristics are often nurtured within relational contexts. Thus, the self is not merely a personal attribute but a product of co-creation influenced by the feedback and perceptions we receive from those around us.

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