

55: Flexible Leadership with Jeffrey Mello
15 snips May 26, 2025
Jeffrey Mello, the 16th Bishop Diocesan of the Episcopal Church in Connecticut, shares his unique blend of social work and ministry. He discusses how a posture of curiosity and the acceptance of failure are essential to effective leadership. The conversation delves into the challenges and benefits of integrating pop culture into spiritual practices, as well as the importance of community dynamics in fostering personal and collective growth. The lighthearted segment at the end reveals his playful side through a rapid-fire question round, making for an entertaining conclusion.
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Bishop Jeff's Calling Journey
- Jeffrey Mello's early calling to priesthood began in childhood playing "church" with friends and remained central despite detours into teaching and social work.
- His return to ordained ministry was inspired by a moment of clarity and encouragement from his husband during a church celebration.
Social Work Shapes Holistic Ministry
- Social work shaped Bishop Mello's holistic approach to ministry, emphasizing systemic and contextual understanding.
- He applies this 360-degree lens daily, considering individuals within their family systems and communities.
Lead with Curiosity and Flexibility
- Leaders should cultivate flexibility, curiosity, and a willingness to experiment even if it means failing.
- Modeling these traits teaches communities to embrace change and discern God's call authentically.