The Psychology of your 20s 206. The psychology of love bombing
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Jun 21, 2024 Love bombing is more than just flattery; it’s a psychological manipulation tactic with cultish roots. Discover the three stages of love bombing and how narcissism plays into it. Find out why some people engage in this intense affection that swiftly turns controlling. The podcast also provides five critical questions to discern true love from manipulation. Learn the signs to watch for and the strength required to walk away from harmful relationships, ensuring healthier connections in your 20s.
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Love Bombing Defined
- Love bombing speeds up the typical relationship timeline.
- It uses grand gestures, ego boosts, and high commitment to create a quick, intense bond.
Cultish Origins
- Cults like the Unification Church and People's Temple pioneered love bombing.
- They used it to manipulate recruits by fulfilling the basic human need for love and belonging.
Three-Phase Cycle
- Love bombing has three phases: idealization, devaluation, and discard.
- Initial intense affection is followed by control, manipulation, and eventual abandonment.